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writes:im a 16 year old boy who want to be a straight normal boy. But i believe im gay. i look at gay porn alot and i like it i masterbate on them all the time. my penis becomes hard when i look at it. i try all the time to start masterbating on women but it doesn't succed all time onless i think of 1 penis. i hope that im not gay because i wanted a wife and kids so much but how can i be with a women and have kids whem my penis want become hard i want to change so bad i try all the time. i don't know what to do because i don't want to be gay. i can't picture myself with a man at all. i want to have sex with a girl but what if my penis won't become hard. i don't kno what to do. i like a girl so much but a can't become hard on females juss gay porn. i wanna have sex with her but my penis want become hard. i don't know wat to do and i don't wanna be gay i want a wife and lots of kids in the future
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reader, stephen1127  +, writes (1 September 2008):
hey to be honest yeah you are who you are know one can change that just be your self yeah mate TAKE CARE YEAH
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): I struggled with my sexuality my whole life. I started "experimenting" with men at a very young age. I would keep trying off and on up until I got married. Each time I would have sex with a man I had an overwhelming fear that I was doing something wrong. I guess it was years of friends/family making fun of gay men. On the other hand, I thoroughly enjoyed my same sex encounters. It wouldn't be until recently (within the past 6 months) that I came to grips with everything. I like having sex with other men. It's natural for me. It's been obvious now that I look back. I'm now not ashamed of what I am. I'm a gay man. There's nothing wrong with it. You don't need to go pronouncing it to the world (unless you want to). As with any other situation, don't put unneeded attention on yourself. If you know that you will get made fun of...just shut your mouth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): Hi mate i was the same as you at your age now at 50 i class my self as bi i have sex with both male and female and its as good with one sex as the other sex i also masterbate over cocks and pussy one day will friend your true self be it gay bi or straight good luck lad with your live which everway it turns out
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008): Homosexuality & Bisexuality is nothing to be ashamed of.
Usually Male's don't relize there sexual intrests untill 16-18. Whatever you feel like you are, thats what you are.
But hear this, im only 13. & I know my sexuality already. People say im to mature for my age. Im bisexual, but people don't beleve that I already know what I like. I hate how the world say's lesbian is fine, but gay is a discrase. If I seen any homophobic, I would go crazy. I hate homophobic's to much to see. But I haven't had sexual contact with Males, & yes. I enjoy gay porn too.
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (10 July 2008):
 I've been through something similar to you, but I'm at the other end of the tunnel.
I used to think I was bi because I was attracted to penises as well as women's bodies. At high school I'd look at some guys and think how much I'd love to see their cock. And for a long time, especially in my 20s and 30s, I guess I was pretty heavily into men. There was something incredibly exciting about a big stiff, hard cock, and watching it as it approached orgasm and shot its copious hot load out.
But I never LOVED men. I could worship their penises, but as for kissing and appreciating the other parts of their bodies, these things never interested me. I never saw myself as being in a loving relationship with a man. The fantasy, and the reality, was always one of extreme fascination with their genitals.
Of course, I liked girls, too. But I kind of idealised girls, with their curvy figures, beautiful breasts, and feminine faces. My feelings for girls were a kind of mixture of romantic love and raw sexuality. Perhaps that's why I could never quite picture girls in quite the "get-my-rocks-off" way that I did with cocks.
That has changed over the years. Now I would much rather have a woman than a man as a sexual partner. The penis is still a fascinating organ, raw and animal-like. But I've become more and more turned on by the sexuality of women. Breasts, pussy, and all the rest are not as in-your-face obvious as the penis is, standing tall and calling attention to itself, but they have a charm that grows and grows. One factor is the discovery of women's sexuality and the fleshy charms of the pussy, so much more interesting than the simple open sexuality of the penis! Another is the fact that I can invest both sexual and emotional energy into a woman, which is not the case with a man.
Labelling people is always a dangerous exercise. The current classification is "straight", "gay", or "bi", which is so simplistic. Because of society, I used to label myself as "bi". But the more I looked at it, the more it didn't make sense. I LOVE women. I also like men's cocks in an erotic but not a romantic sense. I've now re-identified myself as heterosexual, but with a "penis fetish". Of course, someone is going to come along and say, "If you're erotically interested in both SEXES, you're homoSEXUAL, get it?" Well, maybe. But there is such a difference in my erotic and romantic levels of interest in the two sexes, I just can't agree with this simple "straight", "gay", "bi" classification. So I'm going to stick to my story: I'm heterosexual with a penis fetish. That's how I class myself and I couldn't give a damn about fitting into these categories that other people have made up.
In case you're wondering, I'm not married yet, even though I'm not so young any more, but it's something that I want and I'm pretty sure that it will happen.
What will happen in your case is hard to say. But don't let people try and tell you "You're gay, you've just got to put up with it". That is nonsense. In time you'll work out your own version of sexuality. At the moment images of penises (not men) are turning you on. As time goes on you'll develop your own sexuality, which will include experience with both women and men. Since you're romantically attracted to women, I suggest that developing a sexual interest won't be too hard when you get the chance.
Enjoy your sexuality for what it is and don't worry! It will turn out ok.
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