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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ive been seeing this guy, a couple of times, he has a kid, he cancelled to see me yesterday, so i went out with friends got drunk, then he texted me saying so sorry for cancelling, i text back saying it shame as wanted to see you, but we texted back and forth a few times and he was like i cant just ship my kid off when it suits me she comes first etc, but i explained i didnt mean that, just i really like him and told him n thats why i was upset we didnt meet, he didnt reply and still hasnt, i think ive prob scared him off and im sure he doesnt want another young girl on his hands Im 23 hes 29....have i blown it? what should i do now?
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reader, girlwantinhim +, writes (23 May 2009):
 hello,
Just leave things for a few days and if he still does not get in touch with you, call him. Explain that you like him and ask him what he feels about you. Also bring up a conversation about his child and say you understand that the kid comes first and you would do the same if you had a child..
See what he says, talk things through and find out if he wants a relationship with you, if he says no (its likely he wont) then forget about him. you can do better.
I hope i helped you in any sort of way and dont worry xx
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