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*aLaLoo123
writes:Well Recently, I've noticed that everytime I go out with someone, when I start getting to know them and they start getting to know me, I start to back out a little. It happened in my previous relationship. I felt we were moving to fast so I felt I had to brake up with him. And a month later I started to go out with my boyfriend and everything is going fine, but he got into a fight the other day, and I'm just really worried that it's going to happen again. I don't know what to do, I think I might have commitment issues and I don't know what to do, please help me:( Reply to this Question
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (7 June 2011):
 It's not a commitment issue, it's a vulnerability issue
You are afraid of people really getting to know you.
Maybe there is a fear they will use it against you or you are afraid that you are flawed. But eh.. we all feel that way.
Infact you just being afraid means your normal.
If it bugs you to get too vulnerable, just give a tad added info about yourself and take a deep breath. On the other hand you may be very wise in not sharing all your inner world. You may just be doing the right thing by keeping your limitations and boundaries in check, which in the end will always find you in a safe and happy RS. So though you are young you have an old soul. You take care and be careful what you share.
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reader, Problem.helper  +, writes (6 June 2011):
 You are 15 :) you can't have commitment issues.
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