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I think I may be gay but I don't want to be!

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Question - (15 January 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I think I may be gay but most definately don't want to be?

I think i'm in love with this girl and I have never been in love with a guy but cum more regularly when watchingg gay porn. I watch straight porn but its less easy to cum. I do get an erection watching straight porn but everyone at school thinks I'm gay. How can i stop myself becoming gay?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010):

how do you feel when you are with the same sex.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010):

hi im a girl and ive been watching girl on girl action from about ur age and had the same question altho it was never brought up in school. i kept that private. but it didnt stop me from having a full on relationship with my current bf who i have been with for just over a year... watching gay porn may just be something that takes your interest more... but does not mean that you are gay. like others have sed maybe you are bi sexual.

i dnt have a very successful time watching straight couples either i dnt know why but my bf is perfectly happy with wot i watch and so im comfortable with it and accept that that is apart of who i am. if ur not comfortable with it then simply dont watch it. as for the kids at school... only you really know wot u feel so stuff them. they dnt know you and they are silly for assuming.

good luck xxx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010):

You probably just haven't experienced a woman since you are so young. You relate more to men because you are one.

Give yourself time to figure out what you want/need. Not by watching porn but living life. Go on a date with the girl you like. Experience your first kiss, etc...

Let life take it's course.

Some people believe homosexuality is a genetic trait. But I think how you are raised and what you choose plays just as big a factor.

Some people are born to be a little husky, but if they exercise regularly can stay lean and fit.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (15 January 2010):

At your age nothing is set in stone.

You have enough hormones raging round your body to make you grow a foot in height and change your internal organs round.

That's going to do strange things to your brain.

If you like this girl then ask her out. And its fair to say we didn't have half these worries 10 years ago because 13 to 15 year olds couldn't get access to porn.

Stop watching it and just be yourself. Only time with tell.

Plus, you just have to ignore the kids at school. You know if they weren't calling you gay, they'd call you too tall / short / thin / fat. Kids pick on things so they don't get picked on themselves.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010):

You cant make yourself gay or stop yourself from being gay. My advice would be to stop watching porn for awhile and concentrate on the girl that you love.

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