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writes:I think I love two men. My current b/f is wonderful her treats me great. But he seems to have no plans for the future. He wants to marry me but he seems to have no stability. We dont live together or share finances)We have been together for almost 3 years.I have ran into my ex a few times over the last 6 months and I feel like I still have feelings for him. I think about him and I don't know why. I dated him 7 years ago and we broke up because I was young and did not understand why he worked out of town, and felt abandoned. I think he may have feelings for me too.What do I do? Am not wanting to hurt anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI tried to talk to my current b/f about this situation, but he seems content with the way things are now, and said that we could move forward when things are ready...Im just more confused now. After all this time i thought that things were going well.? Thanx for the input, lots to think about! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): Of course you dont want to hurt anyone. But you will have to make a decision! If you arent happily moving forward with your current boyfriend then he deserves to know the truth. Before you make any rash decisions why dont you try talking to your ex and seeing if he actually is on the same page as you. Good luck.
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