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*aurenxxx
writes:i have been feeling like this for about 2 months now, so i know its not a 5 minute fling or whatever. but i think i have feelings for my english teacher! i get so excited for my english lessons and i must admit i do show of quite alot, just for him to notice me! yesterday after school me and a couple people from my class stayed after school do catch up with our coursework, but instead of doing coursework all i did was talk to him. he makes me feel so happy and i feel like i can tell him anything! everytime i see him my heart beats so fast and i day dream what it would be like if me and him was together. i also get so upset when i dont have a class with him i dont feel like coming into school if i dont have english. im 15 and hes 38!! but the thing is i dont even think hes goodlooking and he is into camping which i totally hate so we have got nothing in common but he makes me so happy! this weekend all i wanted to do was get back to school to see him, when im in his lessons i cant take my eyes of him there stuck! what shall i do please help me i cant stop thinking about him!!
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reader, kitty_3  +, writes (18 December 2008):
 I think he's a bit too old for you. AT least wait until you graduate.
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reader, ilovemb +, writes (11 December 2008):
 some people just say think about them being not teachers....this doesnt work.
make a list about every thing u hate about anything. this does nt always work BUT the thing i found that worked was wen i told him that i liked him and was fine about it and so i would say that u need to talk to him and its not about skool work....
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): As ChristineD said, you don't LOVE your teacher, to LOVE someone, I feel you have to be in a relationship with them, and you're not, you have got a CRUSH on him, it's not the same thing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): Hey I can relate. I don't wanna tell you that this isn't love, because love is not something u can describe, it's something you can feel. When I was in 9th grade I also had the hots for my English teacher. At first it was just a huge crush but then it kind of turned into obsession. He was all I thought about, I wanted him so bad. I'm not sure if he liked me too, but he would act like it. He always flirted with me and I flirted back. He was really good looking so how do I know he that he didn't flirt with any other girls? See, so it was confusing. But anyways, it started to interfere with my life. I was so depressed, constantly crying and becoming more pissed off. Finally, I could take no more, I had to tell someone. So I told my Mom how much I cared for him and she was really supportive. She told me just to admire him and look up to him, but not to pursue a relationship with him because he could get into serious trouble. I took her advice and now I'am doing alot better. Sure I still think about him, and occasionally I get butterflies when I see him around on campus, but overall I'm no longer love sick. I wish him all the happiness in the world, and I have really grown up from this experiance.
I wish you luck but please be careful and if you're anything like me, you'll soon move on. I know right now it doesn't seem like it, but trust me hun, sooner or later you will meet someone and forget all about your teacher.
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reader, ChristineD. +, writes (6 December 2008):
 You do not love your teacher after 2 months. In fact, you do not love anyone after only two months, sorry to say, but its the truth, and your only 15. Im sorry, but many girls underestimate the word love. Dont worry, im sure after this year of school is over it will start fading.
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (6 December 2008):
 You can tell you don't listen in class. For a 15 year old, your grammar is shocking. It's illegal for him to do anything with you, so if you really love him, you'll stay away from him so that he doesn't lose his job.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (6 December 2008):
 It is extremely common for a young girls to fall in love with their teacher. But, it is a no go area. For one, he could lose his job. Teachers and pupils don't mix, he could end up in prison if you are under age for a start. You don't want that do you?. Your hormones will be all over the place. One week you fancy your teacher, another week you'll fancy the boy in your class. and so on. It is a natural process of your growing up. What I suggest is, keep these feelings to yourself it can only mean heartache and embarrassment for you if it ever gets out. It can never happen at all and you must be strong and face up to this. hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): Get over it, laurenxxx, you are in a fantasy world. I was a teacher for several years. I was single when I first began teaching. Believe me, it is an annoyance when girls your age get fixations on men teachers. They don't want to be cruel or unkind, but they must discourage it. You will only wind up embarrassing yourself and maybe even be hurt. Boys have crushes on women teachers as well,...I did myself,..but boys have much more common sense. I am sure the young lady who taught my sophomore English class was aware of my adoration, but she never had a problem with it, because I knew I could only be a "worshipful admirer". I never gave her reason to be embarrassed or uncomfortable about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): Stay away from Him!! You're playing with fire! Find someone your own age. You can get yourself and him in a lot of trouble! It's common for young girls to have crushes on their teachers, but don't pursue it! Keep it to yourself as a pleasant fantasy.
Good Luck!
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