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writes: i started talking to a friend of mine about 7 months ago now. since then we become really good friends the thing is i think i love her. i just cant stop thinking about her and its really starting to get me down as i dont think she feels the same way. especilly as over the past month shes started to fall out with me. i just dont know how to tell her as i dont want to do it over msn or the phone and she dosn't seem to want to spend any timw alone with me.what can i do?
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reader, b3njo12dan +, writes (11 July 2007):
b3njo12dan is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjst a bit of an update on whats happened.......
I told her how i felt and she bascilly completly rejected me. at first she was really horrible to me about it and how id 'freaked' her out and how she now felt uncomfortable around me. after a few weeks i couldnt bear to be away from her and we've started to make friends agian now but i still feel the same way about her that i always have done. since then ive had two other short relationships but i couldnt carry them on because of the way i feel about my friend. ive jst started seeing someone else but i jst cant stop thinking about her. i know most of u will think im pathetic and i should get a grip but its really tearing me apart.
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 You need to talk face to face and share your feeling about each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007): if you want to risk the friendship then go for it ... tell her how you feel. you'll never know unless you try :)
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reader, bobbieg +, writes (15 January 2007):
Hey
I have been in the same position as you. I was good friends with this girl for about 6 months and we were really close friends i would always be round hers and she would always be round mine. It was a relationship where you could sleep in the same bed as each other and nouthing would happen. But the only problem was that i got to really like her in the other way and yeah i felt like i hade feel in love with her. One day we were out at our local park jus going for a walk and chatting and i told her how i felt. she wasnt to surprised and that day things happened we were cuddling and kissin most the day and it was brilliant i thought this was it i finally can let my emotions out. We spent that night together but it wasnt sex just cuddling down and kissin and everything. Well it last a few days and it just started to feel weird we jus didnt feel the way we did before it all happened yeah i still felt like i loved her but we werent good friends any more and it didnt feel right. Basically all im saying is wat you have with this girl now is speacial its friendship so dont take it any further cause wat you had now wil be lost and you might not ever get it back. I know you prob not wanting to hear this but i hope it helps
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