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writes:I think i love her too muchThere is this girl that i fell in love with last year and have been going out with for about 6 weeks now and things are going good and im happy but im concerned about how much i love her. I dont know if its just me being silly or not understanding my feelings but i dont think that im supposed to feel this strongly about someone, i know im new to love and relationships but is this how im supposed to feel? Am i supposed to have such a deep longing for her company her touch her voice to have her on my mind all the time. I am just realy confused about it all. The main fear i have about this is that if i were to lose her i dont think that i could live without her. I do have a history of depression and phycological problems so basily i dont know what to do how to think of feel anymore please help Milo
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reader, Milo117 +, writes (3 March 2011):
Milo117 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for your help im nerdy too the yoda quote is awsome :) realy works for this situation. Thanks hope you and your love ge to spend more time together.May the force be with you
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): Its great that you and her are going out because im in a similar situation, there was this girl that i had been friends with for about 2 years and i finally got the guts to tell her i liked her as more than a friend but she told me she liked someone else so we decided to remain good friends. Now she is all i think about because we are at school in different cites so i don't get to see her very often which makes it that much harder. Anyway, i guess what i want to say is, is that its great that you have these genuine feelings for her but don't let them take over your life, my suggestion is find a hobby to occupy your time as well because if you start obsessing over her, she may get annoyed and say your too clingy and may even break up with you. So spend time with her but also try and understand that she has a life too. Hope this helps and good luck"Attachment leads to jealousy, the shadow of greed that is.Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose"- Yoda(srry i know its kinda nerdy but i think its an awesome quote and it sorta relates to this situation)
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