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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I think i fancy my boyfriends brother. I have been with my boyfreind almost 2 and a half years and up til about 6 months ago i was sure i was in love. Ive been getting dreams for the last few months about my boyfriends brother at least 3 times a week. i thought it was nothing but now when i see him i get a bit funny and my boyfriend says i flirt with him. i seen my bfs brother going into the bathroom to have a shower and i saw his bum and i really liked it. i told my bf i had dreams about his brother and he says its just cos im stressed lately which is true as and i have been aggressive as ive hit him twice and i always go mad over nothing. yet i couldnt imagine being without my boyfriend and wen i aint angry or stressed i truly believe that everything will work and is fine. weve already planned to spend the rest of our lives together, and i would love that. so why do i dream loads about getting with his brother and why do i like it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): i have the same problem, i have been with my bf 3 years, just b4 christmass something happened between me and his brother, we just seemed to click and phyisical contact increased, like hed pass me something and wed slowly release hands. now my bf has moved in and our sex life is ok when we put effort in to pretend to like each other( we argue a lot)
, maybe once a month. My bf is better looking than his bro but i just cant help dreaming about him & he knows how i feel and chose to not tell my bf. but now i regret him moving in. i feel stuck
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reader, DV1  +, writes (26 May 2007):
 There's a difference between attraction, and love. You like your bf's brother's body. That's it. You can be in love and attracted to multiple people. Think of a guy watching porn. It happens. It doesn't mean that you love your boyfriend any less. As long as it doesn't affect your life with him, it's fine. I think that you need to make sure that you're not flirting, because you're going to make your bf jealous, and hurt him in the process, causing him to walk away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2007): spend less time around his brother, its prolly just a phase, growing up you prlly had lots of different crushes and thats exactly what this is just a childish crush. And dont mistake thinking someone is atractive with feeling love for them cuz lots of people make that mistake, they think they love someone but really its the outside they like.
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