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writes: Cut-off!I'm so confused!okso i met this guy at a few parties, ages ago!decided to finally add him on msn n we got proper talkin, n found out we had loads in commen, n he told me that i was legendary n he wished i lived where he did (which isnt that far away), so i inivited him down to where i live n hang out wiv me n my mates (some of which is vaguely knows). so yah we had a great time n kissed n he was txtin me all the time, sayin how he loved hangin wiv me n just generally wanted to no bout all the random daily things i was up to. n we meet up the next weekend, n then the next weekend n still he had been showin real interest in me, he even asked me to marry him (hehe cute) but like he was startin to txt me less n i was sorta gettin miffed by it n over thougth it. so then one day online he told me that the day we had planned to next c each other couldnt happen cos of reasonable reasons n then i was sayin 'well i dnt mind comin on the bus or train to c u another day, im alway up for that' n then he just replied by sayin 'its annoying how fair away we live' so i thinkin y hasnt he arranged another day, so i asked he where i stood wiv him n then he was like i do really like u but i ave problems of y we cant b together, he said we lived to far, he had issues like depression n he said he just wanted to b my friend. n after this we ave never gotten on the same!y hasnt he talked to me?how did he go off me so quickly? when he had told me only a few days b4 he hated not talkin to me everydaywas it all my fault askin where we stood?so i forget him and move on? or could there b a possible chance we could go bk to how we were?does he just want me as a mate?xxreply plz, this has got me down =(
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2006): No, it wasn't your fault. You did, however, ask him where things stood with you, and he told you:
Its too far away (distance) and that makes it a pain to get together;
he said he likes you, but has problems with depression (that can be very hard to deal with - being depressed, that is).
Perhaps the friendship between you just burned itself out.
Not to worry; just let it go and move on.....you'll meet someone else who likes you and perhaps lives nearer and doesn't have the issues this man has......ALSO, when it comes right down to it, maybe you and he did not really have a lot in common - interests, values, etc. If you don't, there isn't usually too much basis for a relationship......sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2006): no its not your fault he probably wanted to be with other people but didn't know how to say it and when you asked what you sand it ways the right time
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