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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i met a guy when i split with my ex. i didnt fancy him to start with but when i did fall for him it was too late he had met someone else so moved on and met someone else too. a year went on and on the same day my bf and his gf left us (not for each other), we have got back in contact and get along great really great but i think im falling for him again... and i think he sees me more as a good friend now. what can i do to make him see i like him without blatently telling him and making a fool out of myself?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 April 2008):
You have both just got out of relationships...
Are you sure this is the best time to be starting something that could be very serious? If you do this now it could be a brilliant rebound with lots of angry sex but you could lose the friendship by taking it too fast.
Stay friends for a while, make sure the feelings you have for him are really real, and then if it is meant to be then it will be.
You will click and it will happen if it is meant to. You don't need to throw yourself at him. ....
Having said that the odd low cut top and bit of extra makeup doesn't hurt.
My killer line that hooked my husband was when he came to pick me up for a casual drink. My housemate lets him in, and I appear a few minutes later in my shortest skirt.
"I bought this the other day but I don't know if it is too short... what do you think?"
What ever he says, go and change anyway as you are a lady, but you got to show him your legs without looking slutty. How he reacts will tell you if he wants you or not as well.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (6 April 2008):
 well firstly u need to know how he feels for you..because some guys like girls but they wouldnt want her to know their true feelings because they beleive it will destroy the so called FRIENDSHIP..so why dont u ask a common friend to find out how he feels about you and ask that friend to even tell him a little bout how u feel..and see how he reponds..trust me once u have the SO CALLED FEELINGS for the person it can nevr change no matter u date or move on..u still have a thing for that person..so may be thinks will work out for you..hope it does..all the best hun
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reader, I care  +, writes (6 April 2008):
 Try spending more time with him and drop little hints on how you feel or flirt inocently and observe his reaction. You never know he might ask you out.
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