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anonymous
writes: my boyfriend has alot of female friends on the internet and it kind of bugs me.. i also think he is meeting new women on the internet? we have been together for 4 months... what should i do???
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reader, I Waited For The One  +, writes (10 January 2007):
 People r allowed to have friend's over the internet.
you have been 2gether 4 month's. and it's already bugging you he talks to friend's or girl over the net what's your r-ship with this lad like? do u talk offen or does he put is head in the screen all night long?
does he hide what he say's if you enter the room?
does he only talk to these girls when your asleep?
does he let you read what he putting 2 these girls?
these r question i need to know if u think i can help you
i hope you get over this because you sound like a nice person and it's not nice ignore your real life girlfriend over some internet friend's
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2007): If you think he is meeting women from the interent then why don't you confront him on it and see what happeneds from that if he is seeing women he chats with on the interent then he is a player and you should probably tell him if he wants to keep a realtionship with you he needs to stop flirting and meeting women on the interent and if he should just be friends with them not more then that because he has you for that hopes this helps (ttyl) talk to you later... if you have any other problems just send me a message at my mailbox bye...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2007): First question for you: are you and your boyfriend in an exclusive relationship? Have you specifically agreed not to date anyone else while you're together? (I say "specifically" as opposed to ASSUMING neither of you is dating anyone else).
If you do have a spoken agreement to be exclusive, you'll have to have a talk with him and see if he wants to date others at this point.
If you do not have such an agreement, then both he and you are free to date others - UNLESS, that is, the two of you are having sex. Once you do sleep together, then the general expectation is that you wouldn't date others.
However, as mentioned, you'll have to see what you want to do about this situation: continue on with him and accept he may be dating others; or decide to end it.
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