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writes:I've known Mark since 1st grade...we're now 56. After school he left for college and I have not thought of him til 2 yrs ago when I got a friend request on FB from him. We started talking every few weeks for 6 months then a little more up until 9 months ago when it became everyday...now its 3-4 times a day. He never married...is a good Christian man..doesn't drink..has great job and own home. All his family still lives here. I know he cares a lot about me..we have gotten to know each other better than anyone...he makes me laugh and I go to bed smiling and wake up smiling...he's last person I talk to everynight and 1st ever morning. Problem is..I think he is scared of commitment...he has been here only 2 times since Feb. the last time last week. I know he is attracted to me...could see it in his eyes, but all we did was hug each other...says he's coming back real soon..he lives 120 miles away. I am totally in love with him and feel he feels it too...how do I know for sure...he's shy about ansewering questions that make him nervous..Please give me some advice...please..
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reader, petina1  +, writes (13 June 2014):
 He doesn't seems to have a fear of closeness or commitment. You need to get to know him a bit more. You may not get the man you desire if you don't probe a bit deeper.dont rush in yet.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 June 2014):
 If he has a fear off commitment then there must be a reason and therefore getting to the bottom of that can help him move forward. I think the best thing you can do is just be straight with him and tell him the truth. Tell him you love him, tell him you want to be with him and see how he responds. I know it is a huge step and it can be scary but it is best to be honest with him at least then he knows where he stands with you. The worst that can happen is that he turns you down and in that case then you will be free to move on and accept that nothing will ever happen. However it might be the best thing that you ever do.
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