I think he cheated but he won't talk about it!

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm 27 yrs old and my bf is 23yrs old we have been together 5 yrs, we did get seperated about 3 times. And when this happened I did meet new people, when ever he found out he wanted us back together but then always saind that I cheated on him, but how if we where broken up. Well he is a good provider for me and my child, but he doesn't like doing anything but work and watch tv, no outside fum at all. Last week he was getting out of work late and well I had this feeling that something wasn't right so I went thru his phone and found some text messages to a woman asking if they were going to have lunch but she didn't reply, he also told her that a beautiful smile and so on. Now whether they did go out or not I don't know he was getting home at 8pm. when I confronted him he got upset and never realy ansered my ?'s he says that I feel like that because of what I have done, but we were not together. Well the other problem is that I just started in college for BSN and we had decided that I quit work, now what do I do, forgive him till I can get another job to provide for me and my child or just leave. I love himeso much and what hurts the most is that he wont confess and he acts like nothing is wrong I fell like he is laughing at me cause when I confronted him he also said I didn't do anything but it doesn't feel good to feel betrayed. I didn't do anything!

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