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writes:Why do I feel like I'm being used,I try my hardest with my partner,give her money,take her out,buy her fags,she hasent got much,i do love her,but I don't think I can take anymore,it feels like it's all one sided,it feels like the more I give,the more she wants.i dnt understand ,it's really getting me down,she can change so quick,and get very moody over nothing ,I've told her she prob got bipolar,and she needs help, but she just tells me no,all relationships will have there problems,but I feel like she treats me like mud,but she has kicked me out so many times,am I a fool,or is this normal,I've never ever dealt with situations like this before,I need help,urgent,but she does to,thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2014): This brief description reminds me so much of my ex. Please note ex.. I allowed a very similar situation to go on for far too long and ended up feeling very used. Walk away if you'd like your finances to remain intact, take time to get over the abuse, because she is abusing you, and make yourself free to meet a woman who will love you for you, not for what you can buy for her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2014): "Why do I feel like I'm being used"
Because you ARE being used.
"am I a fool,or is this normal"
You are a fool.
"I need help,urgent,but she does to"
As long as she is able to use you and play you for a fool she has no incentive to get help. All you can do is help yourself, and the only way to do that is to grow a pair and refuse to allow yourself to be used or played for a fool any longer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2014): She dont love you.
Stay away from her and find someone else.
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