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female
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anonymous
writes:Ever since my boyfriend broke up with me in October, I have been extremelly horny. I masturbate about twice a day and always think about him, he was my first and only. He's a selfish jerk, but sometimes I feel so horny that I actually think about calling him again and having sex with him, but I know that will only hurt me more so I dont want to do it. I was thinking about a rebound guy but I'm afraid if I have sex with someone else, I will get attached and have my heart broken again, just like with my ex. I think about sex so much, I feel like a guy and its really embarrasing! What can I do about this urge I have?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (25 January 2009):
 You will find a lover soon enough, but sex is not like food or the air you breathe. You must breathe and eat to survive, but sexual satisfaction is just not quite as necessary all the time. It can certainly be habitual, even addictive, but I agree with others that you can ease this need with masturbation until you meet a guy who really deserves your charms. Your ex has apparently moved on, and you probably should as well. There are plenty of loving men available.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): You obviously have a high sex drive. Everyone is different. I would continue to mastebate - that way you are not allowing anyone to use you and you are satisfying your needs.
the right guy will come along but you dont want a guy just for sex as yo will find yourself going through the population.
If you drink alcohol you may need to cut down as this also can lead you to feeling horny and its awful when you know its just you and your body.
I have nothing against watching porn or doing it to yourself. Cleaner, safer and more satisfying.
I'm in the same boat for the past 9 months.
Hope you found this useful.
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