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writes:I'm so confused, my ex has resently come back to where i live after moving away in the summer holidays. I now have a new boyfriend that i have been dating for 2 months, but at night i cant stop thinking about all the good times i had with my ex and when i see him in town i blush and feel excited. I really dont want to hurt my current boyfriend, but does this mean i like my ex more?? i dont want to be attracted to him anymore becuase we agreed we'd be friends. I really like my current boyfriend but am i still attracted to my ex??Please help me. im really confused and i dont know what to do :(
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 What you did with your ex is a part of your life history which is in the past.
What you are doing with your current b/f is history in the making.
When you have something at hand , you do not miss them because you can see them daily.
When you don't have it any more , is what you crave for missing that thing.
A part of you wants to go back in time ,
While another part of you wants to enjoy the present.
hence you are very confused with your thoughts.
If you do not know who to choose,
then you need to get away from both of them and spend some
time alone and find out who is the one you really love
or who really deserved your attentions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): Remebering someone with fondness is fine, even after you have moved on but it certainly sounds as if you would accept more from your ex if it were offered. That doesnt mean you dont really like your current boyfriend, some feelings are just more flattering and over powering than others. Take care not to hurt the new boyfriend though, that just wouldnt be fair.
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reader, blueydblond  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Well as you may have feelings for you current boyfriend...there is definately something else there with your ex that is unexplainable.although, you should probably sit down and either write down the pros and cons of each guy to figure out the differences in them, and that can help you evalutate your feelings for both.keep in mind, you could just be infatuated with the times you had with your ex, but that's no reason to ruin what good turn into a wonderful relationship with your current boyfriend.think wisely and i hope this helps some.xoxo
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