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writes: so i have this game that i play to keep myself entertained..let me start off by saying im a sex freak that doesnt have sex. wierd huh? i think about it most of my day, i blatantly check out guys..their face, body, buldge..whatever it is i check it out. and of course the ones that have a clue..know what im doing. i havent had a boyfriend in 2 years which means no sex for 2 years. so now i just find myself playing this game where i get random men interested in me and when i know their interested..im done, i get bored. i do this with guys i really like, the teachers at school, a sexy school custodian lol, people on the train..anybody. im worried..yes it keeps me entertained and laugh about it..but it is dangerous..because im always teasing..and thats bad..i live in ny and doing what i do..can get me hurt around here..its in the paper's all the time. but anyway i cant help being a tease, so i dont know what to do..and none of my friends understand what i say one bit when i try to talk to them about this..which is why i just typed this. thanks for reading :)
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reader, Lilly223  +, writes (1 January 2007):
 Honestly I think this is typical behavior for a 16/17 year old female... you are just discovering the real power of your sexuality. This is a great thing..but... you really need to curb this behavior. For one, someday someone isn't going to take kindly to your 'just teasing' behavior, and this could get you in to a lot of trouble that you don't want. Secondly, you are putting your self out there as 'simply a sex object' with this behavior, have some respect for yourself and know you are worth more that that. Knowing how to be responsible with your new found 'sexual power' is part of becoming a woman who knows how to use that power. I would recommend that you find ONE individual that is deserving of you and sharing all that you have learned about yourself... it would be appreciated by the right (long term!) partner, and something you both could enjoy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2007): You are young, you are horny, stop doing that it is as simple as that.....take care of yourself on occassion, that should help you teasing for no reason....it is really not as attractive as developing a personality and finding your own company interesting, is it?
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