A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:its a long story.This guy started liking me during our freshmen year in high school, and back then, I wasn't interested in a relationship, I wanted to focus on finishing high school and my studies. During the first few months of this, he started dropping off love notes in my Seminar class frequently, unaware that I was not wanting for a relationship right now. I have to admit, it was so sweet what he wrote on there (I didn't know who he was at the time, it was listed as "your secret admirer"). A couple of months later, he gave a note which gave away his identity, and I found out who he was. He's a guy I've been going to school with since elementary, I just kept to myself though. I wished I had the heart to tell him but I'm just so shy around people, and I found out that he is the same. He's a very sweet, quiet guy, but I don't know much about him. We're both hispanic, quiet, but nothing on a deeper level. During our junior year in high school, we got stuck in Chemistry class together. And I had thought that his feelings for me have diminished, then he sent me a Valentine's carnation complete with a rose and a message. He didn't deliver it to me himself, but his handwriting gave it away (was listed as anonymous again). I was very flattered, I even blushed a bit, but I still want to stick with my studies first. Again, I didn't have the heart to tell him that. A year later, he joined the marching band (I've been in it since freshmen year), and I was shocked. He just started playing an instrument, and he became an expert on it, he was first chair after a couple of months. But I was still surprised that he joined band in his senior year, it was nice. At the end of the year, the WHOLE band practically loved and respected him. But to this day, I wondered if he joined band just for me.We're in junior college now, and I still believe that he has those feelings for me. He recently gave me a Christmas card with a cute ornament decoration a week before Christmas after we finished our finals and we were heading home for the last time this semester. No doubt the gift he gave me was so sweet, and looking at it brings him up in my mind. I don't know if this guy is someone I would see spending the rest of my life with. But should I give him a chance? It's obvious....he likes me very much (don't worry, not to the point that he's stalking me). I still want to focus on college, but should I give him a chance?I'm sorry this was so long.
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