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writes:O.K My ex-boyfriend and I split like 7 months ago, and he has a new girlfriend. Which is the reason why we split!! I ended up hurt really bad as he chose to be with her. However, recently I have met up with him and we ended up messing around. He was staring at me in the weirdest way as if he really missed me or something. We spoke about his relationship and he admitted that he loved her, but that he knows she's being unfaithful to him. He has nowhere to go except with her, has no place to live, and I think that's what's keeping him with her. I know I shouldn't want to be with him for the simple fact that he cheated on me with her, and left with her! But i have deep feelings for him, and I am willing to work past it. he said that they wont be together for long, but I don't know. He was my man first for 5 long years, but i'm really confused as to what he plans to do. Should I just remove myself from the picture? Or mess with him until he leaves her, (if) and stays with me where he belongs!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): He DOESN'T belong to you! Remember, you and he split because he got another girlfriend. He chose not to be with you.
Frankly, you were better off when you had been broken up for seven months. Why did you agree to mess around with him and blow your chances of making a good life for yourself without him in it?
Let him go! Don't ruin your life.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (3 September 2007):
 Hi, what your bf has done to you, his new gf is doing the same thing to him.Dont give him the impression that you are waiting around for him as he will keep you hanging around as long as he can. Be his friend and be there for him when he needs you. It is natural for you to want him bk as he was with you for so long.As long as you are able to overcome your past experince as work through things with him then you can give him another chance. Lay some 'rules' before entering into a relationship with him to prevent you from going through the same thing.Good luck, mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, lisa21  +, writes (3 September 2007):
how can you feel sorry for this creep? i was in a simillar position except i wasn't daft enough to fall for the sympathy act, he cheated on you and now he is being cheated on, what comes around goes around i say, he knows his girlfriend will realise he is a jerk and will leave him so he is trying to get you to feel sorry so he has somewhere to go. dont fall for it you can do better x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): how can you feel bad for the jerk? he cheated on you remember? and now he is being cheated on, what goes around comes around, that's what i say.if i were you i'd stat away from him, i've had this experiance and he probably wants to make you feel sorry for him so that when his current gf sees what a loser he is and dumps him, he'll have you to come running to, he sounds like a user if you get involved again i know you'll regret it.
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reader, beautifultrustnlover +, writes (3 September 2007):
 remove your self from the picture its clear your just hurting your self and causing your self pain plus he cheated and he thinks its okay because your letting him think that by talking staying in contact and fucking him get real her this man left you for her and now is sleeping with you behind your back as now its the other way around its okay???okay heres what i think he doesnt know who he wants and may leave you both for some one new if the chance and that she may not be cheating as how do you know he didnt tell her the same things hes telling you ???your fighting with fire and i say the burns are not what you want so remove your self from the picture and let him have hes life find you a new man you can trust good luck
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