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writes:So this girl I been with for two months just agreed to marry her ex-bf. I knew about the other guy before we got together. She couldn’t marry him at the time cause he was leaving to work in another country and she had to stay because of work and school. The two months we been together have been the greatest moments of my life so far. I know she loves me but she can’t tell me. I have already told her I loved her and she only told me she loved me during sex. Now that shes engaged, she told me we can’t hangout anymore and we can’t talk on the phone as often. Problem is I still love her so much, theres no one else I want to be with except her…also I work with her and will see her next week which makes it even worse.What should I do? Should I continue to chase after her or let her go? I know if I try hard enough I might be able to win her back but my mom has already told me how much she doesn’t like her and she herself has told me to move on with my life…
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reader, acbb +, writes (1 September 2009):
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): It sounds like you are in love with the idea of you two, and her choosing you over her fiance. Honestly it's time to think about yourself for once... trust me I know that's hard when you're feel such strong emotions towards someone, but you have to. Let her go, obviously she does not love you enough to even say it without making love, or letting her fiance go to be with you. You are only sacrificing your happiness here now, it's time you move on with your life and find someone else. There are many many people out there who will make you feel more amazing than this woman did, and it'll be sincere.
Be true to yourself.
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