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writes: I have a 2 year old son. His dad left me when I was pregnant. I still love him but he lives so far away from me now and he has never seen his son. I don't want to love him anymore but can't stop. What do i do? I need all the advice I can get because I don't want this to affect my life anymore. Has anyone got some amazingly helpful advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (21 February 2006):
 Your ex was a rat, he left you when you were pregnant this is your most vulnerable time.
Falling out of love is not as easy as falling into love, you had a child by this rat and you are lonely, thinking about what it would be like to have this man in your life and not have to struggle on your own, you have a wish for him but in reality you know you are better off without him, he is a RAT.
Getting over someone is really rough but when you have a baby to them it is rougher, there is no magic cure as you have to grieve the relationship breakup and with time move on, only time will heal.
Enjoy your child and being a mum, being a single mum is ok, trust me I know, at least you get to call all the shots and you are not having to worry about where he is and who with, and believe me even if he did come back he would go again.
Be strong, enjoy what you have and time will heal the rest.
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