A
female
age
26-29,
*ierani417
writes:I had a really long relationship with my ex, but I still am not over him, and he says he isn't over me, but yet, he calls me a hoe and a whore and stuff. I don't know what to do. I have a really good boyfriend now that never has hurt me, but I still really like my ex. Help?!
View related questions:
my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): I'd never call that to the person I love. Never. I love and care for her wellbeing far to much.
I only want to make her happy.
In the mean time, Cookie (hehe love the name btw!) is right. He is lying to you. Do you want to get yourself strung along into a abusive relationship?! Because thats what I fear it will evolve into.
Your choice?! You love your current one then its easy to get over the one that obviously doesn't love you.
I implore you to see sense and get over him.
A
female
reader, PsyCookie +, writes (14 July 2008):
 I think your ex is lying to you. No person who loves another would use a derogatory name to describe the other person. Probably once in a very heated discussion, but you make it sound like he says it often to you.
Try to concentrate with your current relationship. Try to enjoy you relationship since you said the guy is a good person. The only reason you're not over your ex is because you still have the "what if?" thoughts that are handling you on a thread and that maybe your ex is aware and is playing with them. Like I said, think of your current relationship. I mean, there's a reason why you broke up with your ex, so keep that in mind.
...............................
|
