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anonymous
writes: I have a big group of friends of both boys and girls, we go out with each other most weekends and know each other really well. A month ago i was at a party (and drinking) and i kissed one of the boys. I didn't think it meant anything but then the next two parties we were together again and i started to like him, but i didn't tell anyone. Last weekend we were all at one of our mates houses and he kissed one of my best friends. I'm not annoyed with her because she didn't know i liked him but i don't know what to do. I still like him but know that he is obviously not interested in me and i can't talk to him about it what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for all your advice i just need to forget about it basically
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reader, soldier16 +, writes (1 December 2010):
Babes you should tell someone about this. maybe one of your friends that you trust the most or feel more comfortable around. this is kinda serious and i think you are getting on well.
(this might sound a bit harsh but i dont have any other way of putting it) i think the reason why he kissed you was that maybe he was under the influence of the alcohol and therefore wasn't really understanding what he was doing.
so what i think you should do is ask your friend whether she likes him or whether the kiss meant anything to her. if no then tell her how you feel about him. if yes then just try to tell her you like him and since she's your bestfriend, she will understand the true meaning of friendship: friendship lasts forever but boys and men come and go.
by the way am only 15!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): Your wasting your time hun. If he liked you he'd be interested in kissing you, and only you. Just let it blow over your head. Find someone really decent. Maybe he's only meant to be a friend and only a friend. Hope this helps.
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