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writes:My boyfriend and I (of 1 1/2 yrs) broke up this last december(dec. 24th.. :-( ) I broke it off with him cause it just wasnt wrking out. We still cared alot about eachother but it just didnt seem like we were even datig anymore(its complicated, our best friends were dating, they broke up so its hard to hang out, and my parents are REALLY strict)anyway, I went to break up with him, and i was shocked to see tht he was really upset, i was SURE tht he WANTED it to end.. but he seemed REALLY upset... Tht was over our xmas break.. we tlkd a few times after tht.. but it wasnt like.. any actual convos.. well now we are back in school(we are in the same class)and it is just AWFUL.i still care bout him and REALLY miss him.. ive tried to tlk to him a few times. and he wont even look at me..hes blocked me on aim..COMPLETELY avoiding me.. is he mad at me? is he over me? wht should i do?HELP PLEASE
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (19 January 2007):
 Cheer up this is normal and will happen to u again in future relationships. He will understand give him time, meanwhile dress up in, colours or clothes that make u fell comfy, concentrate on studying and enjoy the friends and activities u like, u'll get over it soon
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reader, cd206  +, writes (19 January 2007):
 You're feeling guilt about the break up which is such a common thing but it sounds like you're starting to confuse your guilt with the idea that you still have feelings for him. I'm sure you see him as a friend also and it's natural to be concerned about your friends but the best thing you can do right now is give him some space to get his head together. He'll come back to be your friend if you mean anything to him but right now he needs to get over his hurt.
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