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writes:Ive been seeing some one for about six months.. But its susposed to be just a phsyical relationship if u get me. Because of our circumstances he wudnt have time for me properly and im 20 hes.39.. No one no's about it, anyway we decided to just have no strings but recently iv become really attatched wantin to see him alot more and hes told me to get a boyf some one tht will be able to give me wht I want and need, so I startd txtin this guy iv known for a while try to get my mind off him I go on a few dates with this new guy. Hes lovely. But im still thinking of this other guy. I txt him told him I fort it was going to be easier to forget him, I still want him and he replied to me saying he misses me. This was susposed to be a none feelings little fling. And its become so much more. Now theres some one else involved... Help ! X Reply to this Question
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (15 January 2012):
 You're 20 and he's 39, and he wants to use you for sex. This guy isn't worth it! If you've developed feelings for him that he doesn't return, time to end things with him and quickly, forcibly, and finally. To wait, continue to sleep with him, and hope and pine is masochistic and will really really hurt you, not to mention ruin your good looks, sex appeal, and age.
Your time is valuable! Don't waste one more second on the FWB. Better to be alone than used.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay. Thanks for your advice I no exactly what I should be doing about the situation, just wish I could forget my fwb but its working out to be alot harder than I thought..! Il start seeing this new guy a bit more I think because the more I see him the more im liking him, hopefully forgeting the other, thank you :) its good to hear what I need to do even if I already know lol xx
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