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writes: Ok..here's a quick recap of what happend. I used to have a crush on the paperboy. I talked to him and went after him but he didn't seem like he got the signals so I backed off. I didn't talk to him for a month because I got busy. Then one day he shows up at my door with a Christmas present and asks me out. I liked him too, but I thought he had some nuts missing in the head. I broke his heart and told him we should just stay friends with no intentions of talking to him. Then I went out with another guy..so fast after that. I realized it was a mistake and want to get the paperboy back. I just don't know what to do when I was the one who started and ended things.
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reader, luckyduck +, writes (30 December 2005):
I've been trying to get some help from my friends and they are all pretty much telling me the same things you have said. to me there is a problem with it i dont want to look desperate or needy when i ask him to forgive me. i already know he still likes me and i guess he knows i still like him(I told his little brother in hopes he'd mention it). should i just say sorry and get it over with...short and sweet and to the point. he should understand. i didnt mention in my question that we've been good friends for a while that was my only reason for blowing him off. but in the end it wasn't a good decision. i'll survive!
thanks for the help
~luckyduck
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (29 December 2005):
 Angel,
If you really like him, tell him!
Tell him you were caught of guard, and that you made a mistake!
Whats the worst that could happen?
If you don't you could be letting go of a perfect love and that doesn't come round to often
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reader, AgonyUncle +, writes (29 December 2005):
Hi Luckyduck,
I really feel for you, you have made a mistake, try to learn from it, i also really really really feel for the paperboy, i know how hard it is to pluck up the courage to ask a girl out but to then be rejected is even worse so he has been through all that heartbreak! I suggest writing him a letter! Write down and explain the situation to him, ask to be forgived! then post it to him! that way he wont have to make a split second decision! if it all works out great! but if it doesnt just move on and let it be!
Best Of Luck! Tom
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (28 December 2005):
 Dearie, well if u are sure that this is what u want then its fine tell him and hope he still feels the same way and is ready to forgive and take a risk with u again.
but if you are not sure what u want for now please do take time to think about things so that u dont continue hurting this guy and also urself.
All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2005): Just tell the guy how you feel and explain to him what happend but dont come on to strong you might scare him off. Even though you guys didn't talk for a month doesn't mean he forgot you or stopped caring about you. it may take a while to get back to the way you were but if you guys really did care about eachother then things may mend, but it takes time. Just talk to him and see where it goes from there.
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