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writes:My ex boyfriend and I were together for 20 months. He was my first long-relationship. When we broke up he told me that he had been cheating on me and was bored of us. After our breakup him and the girl he cheated on me with got together and they would always send me mean threatening texts. Now its been over a year since we have broken up and he is dating someone else and now they broke up. I have recently found happiness in someone else. My entire year last year was horrible because my ex wasnt in my life and he was my true happiness even though he did wrong to me. But i started modeling and have had a lot of good happen to me. Now that he found out I have someone else hes texting me about how he wants me back? Ive waited for this moment for so long. what do i do?
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reader, CuppenZeCake +, writes (27 March 2011):
 Don't do it! Well, I wouldn't :( it's not fair to you since you spent all this time getting over him. Given his reputation, he might be using you as a transition for this break up he's going through. Be strong and resist the erge to go back to the familiar :(
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reader, Lina Santos  +, writes (26 March 2011):
 You should be a bit careful about that, and think very carefully before you decide upon anything.Don't say yes yet and don't fall into his arms because it might just turn out worse than the first time. Here's a link to some advice that you can follow. http://www.exboyback.com/#4 (See "He Shows Signs)If you have any questions, you can also post them to me :) as we're into all this stuff.Good luck!
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reader, Eilish +, writes (26 March 2011):
 Do not get back with him. He cheated on you, how do you know that you'll be able to trust him again? Also, he ran off with this woman, which showed he didn't care how it would have left you feeling. Also, sending threatning texts is immature, he should grow up. And you want somebody like this back in your life? Why? He doesn't sound at all decent. This new man in your life saved you from your heartbreak, why would you want to hurt him to go back to the guy who hurt you? It doesn't seem fair. And have you took into consideration he might only want you back because his relationship didn't work out? I think you should stay with this new man, and forget about your ex. He's only got more chance of hurting you again. Just show him how strong you are now, and let him go. good luck xxx
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reader, FiveoJen +, writes (26 March 2011):
Brutal answer, so suck it up and get ready to hear exactly what you don't want to. Okay, first and foremost, he cheated, he WILL do it again. Secondly-obviously you didn't strike his fancy until you started modeling..and frankly, you will end up a "trophy" girlfriend. Here is how everyone operates, not just men, not just women, everyone. We ALL hate to be alone. We are ALL materialistic. We want the nicest house, nicest car, best cell phone, in style clothing, and the hottest boyfriend or girlfriend. You weren't good enough then, in a matter of time, you wont be good enough again. I'm not actually saying that your not good enough, I'm saying its an unfortunate cascade of events that WILL happen. You can take this with a grain of salt, and do what you please, however, trust me, from experience, he will come back, he WILL cheat, he will re-break your heart while feeding you lines of crap that you will eat up like its going out of style..and within months your going to be sitting in his shadow wondering what happened. If you really want to give it another go, do it while keeping yourself at arms reach. Make him earn it back. But I'm telling you now-it wont work.
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