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writes: People will talk about how I shouldn't be snooping and you are right, but I did. For some reason I was suspicious of this person in my b/f's cell phone. Never heard of them although I am sure there are people we don't know in each other's lives. But--it seems they are calling each other. I wouldn't say a lot or tons of calls or anything like that but still I was curious and it got the better of me. I copied the number down and called it and it says "please wait while your party is reached" and then classical music plays instead of hearing the ringing noises but no one picked up. Because the classical music played--I am thinking it's a girl.. Does anyone know this function on a cell phone-can you choose the type of music being played as you wait or it's just automatic? I am really nervous he hiding this girl under a guy's name. I wish this person would pick up so I knew. Please write back. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): To be honest, I think you're reading waaaaay too much into this and are being a little bit paranoid. It's probably nothing.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (19 June 2006):
 It's a guy's name and you got voicemail? This really isn't evidence of any problems. To be honest, the fact that you are thinking classical music is an indication of them being female makes you sound paranoid. The kind of music means next to nothing.
However, the fact that you are suspicious means that something might be going on. Your intuition is very powerful: if you feel that something is not right then there's a chance you are correct. Especially if you feel his attention being redirected away from you, or if his behaviour seems different from before.
Something must not be right for you to be feeling this way. I suggest you talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you are feeling that something is wrong. Just tell him your feelings and see how he reacts. At worst, you may find your suspicions are true, but also it may just be that the two of you need to have a good open conversation and get some of your issues out into the open. Sometimes suspicion can build up because there is not enough sharing and intimacy.
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