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I slept with my boyfriends best friend.

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Question - (26 July 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ovesickpup writes:

Hi There

About 6 months ago i went to a party with my bf and my boyfriends best friend, after my boyfriend fell to sleep i started talking to his best friend and he told me that he had always liked me and we ended up kissing.

Then about a week later we ended up sleeping together but it was just us having a physical relationship he made me feel alive again something my boyfriend hadn't done for a while but then we stopped.

But afew days ago i saw him and as i was leaving i gave him a hug and as i was pulling away he tilted his head in towards mine what does this mean

i really need your help

lovesickpup

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A female reader, lovesickpup United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2007):

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lovesickpup agony auntI have decided to tell my boyfriends bestmate and how i am feeling if he says that he cant get back into that situation that we was in i will leave it and carry on with my boyfriend but i will tell him how im feeling and how he makes me feel not that i havent done it before but he didnt listen i will tell him that if something doesnt change then that i can not be with him anymore

do you thing that is a gud idea

lovesickpup

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A female reader, lovesickpup United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2007):

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lovesickpup agony auntThankyou for some of your reply i can understand where you are coming from but i cant help but think that my boyfriends best friend is keeping his feelings from me and this would help me if he told me so then i could make my descission

lovesickpup

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A female reader, CHASEY United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2007):

your boyfriends mate is either not taking the both of your feelings into consideration or just not thinking straight he may have feelings for you but your his mates gilrfriend. i would disscuss with your boyfriend where things are going wrong.maybe his not giving you enough affection lately which can be hard but try to talk to him about this maybe you should just forget about his mate for a bit.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2007):

flower girl agony auntCould there be anything worse the poor man, his girlfriend and best friend, did either of you give the poor man a thought at all.

Babe you need to work out and quickly which one of these lads you really want to be with because if things like this carry on you are going to contribute to ruining a friendship.

Take care.xx.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007):

When he tilted in towards yours it looks like he was about to kiss you. Anyway you really shouldn't have been going behind your boyfriend's back and not only cheating on him but with his best mate. That's like a double sin. By the sounds of things it looks you aren't happy in your relationship with your boyfriend and that you found confort in the arms of your boyfriend's mate. I think that you should break up with your boyfriend. I mean you wouldn't be cheating on him if you were happy in the relationship. Also make sure that you don't ever go there with your boyfriend mate again. The very one thing that will hurt your boyfriend the most is finding out the betrayal of both you and his mate before you two going public about your relationship although you are just having a physical relationship with your boyfriend's mate so a relationship is unlikely to occur. Dump your boyfriend and get them both out of your life.

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