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*mmawantsmore
writes: last week i slept wiv my brother mate then i found out that before we slept together he was a virgin i really like him but he ignoring me Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, bridget +, writes (24 March 2006):
Hey There..
Yeah, I agree with d4UO4, When an individual looses his
or her virginity, they need to come to terms with it
in their own time and place and I think this is what your
boy is doing..
Give him time though and he will eventually come round..
I sure hope everything goes alright for you..
Good Luck
Jacqueline xx
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2006): hey girl im a guy and once was a virgin!! u know guys are paranoid about how they were in bed... u know!! we compare are selfs to are mates... and usually b*ll sh*t about who and what we slept with!! also about how good we were just incase u speak to your mates, and word gets around that we lasted about 2-3 sec!! (we have all been there, its all part of the fun!over excitment).... its a guy thing. just speak to him on his own, tell him how u feel, and that u ENJOYED IT!! he wil understand.... trust me im a guy!!!!
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male
reader, d4u04 +, writes (23 March 2006):
very brief :-S but if he's your brother's mate then can't your brother set up a meeting just to see where he stands? If he's OK with you taking a virginity then there shouldn't be a problem, but he's probably just freaked out because losing it is a big deal for some people and he might just need to come to terms with it in his head. If you do meet up with him, don't go in all guns blazing but just sit down with him and have a quiet talk about what his feelings are on the subject, good luck x
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