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anonymous
writes:I've met this guy a 6 years ago through a friend. We only started to see each other since about 2 years ago. At that time I was very much in love with him. He said he liked me too! Was trying to sleep with me a few times, but I refused because he also said that he didnt want a relationship. Even though he was treating me very well at that time.. To get me to sleep with him. It left me heartbroken for a long time. I refused! But a few days ago.. I saw him again after 6 months. As weak as it seems.. My heart started to pound again as soon as I saw him. Finally, I slept with him. The stupid thing is: I said that I had no feelings for him anymore and I TOTALLY DONT WANT HIM AS MY boyfriend BEFORE we had sex. And also.. That it would hurt my feelings because I really care about him. And thats why.. he slept with me. Now I feel disgusting.. For having just sex with him while I tryly want a relationship. He said he would call but he didn't... At least I got a "goodnight" txt message from him. I think because he doesn't want to be a tottal jerk. I didn't reply.. Heard nothing.. It has been 2 days now. I don't think he cares.. What do you think? Thank you for your time!Love,
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008): Call him, thank him for a good time and see if you can meet for a coffee. You've got nothing to loose. If he's not interested, or it's a one night thing, I'm sure he'll let you know. Don't sleep with him again untill your sure your in a loving relationship with him.
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reader, LazyGuy +, writes (10 July 2008):
 Why didn't you answer him? Pride? To late for that, since you already went all the way you might as well risk it all and try and find out if there is something there apart from a one-night-stand.
While it seems likely he was just after sex, you are also not really giving him a chance now to proof different are you?
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