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writes:Right...Got a gf last night and slept with another girl at weekend.The girl at weekend slept with me at weekend and her mate asked me if it was just a one off or want a r'ship. I said I'm not sure, and I asked the girl if she wanted a r'ship and she wasn't sure. At this point I was still single.Few hours later Me and this girl called mel got together and I don't want to cheat on her. The thing is I'm going away with mel soon for week and then week after I'm staying over at that girls house for week too, and staying in same bed and she will be expecting me to have sex with her...but I don't want to tell her I've got a gf because she might feel used, but I havent used her at all.I don't know what to dooo =[ Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHI all thanks for the advice I'm not going to rush into sex with the new partner I'm gunna ask her to take things slow and not rush into sex because I want to build our r'ship up would that be the right idea? I mean relationships are not all about sex theres more to relationships.
with the other girl im gunna have to say to her about the new gf but kind of lift it off lightly to her about it. It's the only way, I shouldn't of done it but I never knew what the next day would bring to me.
Thanks for advice x
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (14 July 2008):
 wow where do i start. first of all the speed at which you jump into relationships is almost impressive, and already your going away together? slow down!! as for the girl you slept with - in wat crazy world do you think its ok to spend a WEEK at hers while you have a girlfriend, having slept with her, sharing a bed....etc etc etc?? the answer to even thinking about spending the week with her would be a capital NO.
however, you are an old enough guy (ie not 13), to know the different between right and wrong, and i cant help but wonder if you are really just trying to have your cake, eat it too, and get a bunch of agony aunts to justify it for you. you know wat your doing, so stop playing these girls around and pick one.
however, i do feel sorry for the one you pick, who knows where you'll be spending the week next time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): either get a diary so you do not get confused or do as uncle phil says!
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