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anonymous
writes:My ex had a really small um, "member", mentioning only for reference, it wasn't an issue. We are both in our 30's. So, when I slept over at his place and we had sex and he pulled out a vibrator. All I could think of the whole time is...where it came from?! Like was it left over from a previous relationship (ew) or...? We broke up shortly after this so I couldn't ask him but I was wondering...would a guy buy it to have one "handy" like a tool or do you figure it was from a previous relationship? I'm fairly sure he didn't buy it for use on me.. Just curious what you guys think of this.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 yikes, That would be a huge turn off. Someone using a "used" vibrator on his date/gf... definently eww.
He MIGHT however have bought one because he wanted to be able to please you no matter his size. So it might not be all eww.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): if he's self conscious about having a small member he probably keeps one around to make sure his sex partners are satisfied... however, if he uses it very everyone he has sex with... eww... that would be gross, even if he cleaned it well...
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (1 December 2010):
 Maybe he enjoys involving vibrators in his sex life. There's nothing wrong with that. At least he is open minded...think he's still single? :)
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 Well, if you are sure that he did not buy the vibrator for you... then he must have bought it for someone else before you.
It could be coming from a previous relationship with a toy loving lady. Or maybe, he might have the typical male paranoia about being "small" ( since he also IS actually small )and he thought he could use some help :)
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