A
female
age
30-35,
*keez
writes:Hello again.My current relationship still isnt going as well as I would hope. My boyfriend tells me he loves me, but never acts as though i am his girlfriend. I feel like another one of his friends. I want affection in the relationship, but he just doesnt give it to me too my satisfaction. I hav trust problems with him, he cheated on me and every since then I feel hes going to do it again. He was drunk at the time, and I have made up my mind that it was a drunken mistake, but still I cant trust him. He doesnt seem to try and gain my trust back. Ive talked to him about this countless times, and last time i threatened that if things dont get any better then we are finished. Well today I was suposed to go round his house for the night, but he stood me up and never came round. I knew there was a msic festival going on in the next town and that we were going to go to that. I feel really regected. So I tried callin him but each time the line went onto voicemail. He always answers his phone usually. So Im just feeling hes gone and cheated on me again. I sent him an email telling him tht hes dumped, and if he wants me back he better try harder.Do you think I have done the right thing?Im really upset with this and I dont know if I will be able to cope without him.I have no contact outside nd he was literaly the onlyperson I ever saw.help would be really grateful
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2007): Dumnping by email is selfish and cowardly. It hurts more than anything else to see an email from your partner and have this little leap of joy inside to be followed by utter despair. I don't think you should want to get back with him anyway, you obviously need someone who will pay you much more attention
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