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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Can't get over my ex?! It's been exactly 7 or 8 months since the break up but it seems like yesterday. I keep his emails and the letters he wrote, i re-read them and listen 2 sad music, i keep telling myself that it's wrong that i'm just hurting my self.. but i almost kind of like the pain.. i don't know what's wrong with me i've tried to forget about him start to see other guys but it doesn't work they kiss me and i still remember his kisses his words every memory seems like yesterday and i wake up almost wishing i could be with him again. The only problem is that i haven't heard from him. i've tried texting him the only way i know he is alive is by his myspace.. i can't put in my brain that he left me because he wanted drugs he said he cared about me and couldn't stand to hurt me again.. i just don't get it,, i could of helped him..and now it's gone.. every song evrything reminds me about him i had a major crash yesterday.. i drank and listend 2 the radio and all the songs reminded me of him... help please
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 It's time to perform an exorcism. Stand up tall, take a deep breath and get to work removing all the pictures you have of your ex. You don't have to throw them away, but please put them in a box, tape up the box and put it on the top shelf of your closet. Remove all the music that reminds you of him and replace them with happier songs that have no connecting memories. Get rid of all the tokens, gifts and anything that reminds you of him. (Box them up, you don't have to throw them away). You have mourned for this man long enough. It's time to walk out into the sunshine and start living again! Yes, I think you are addicted to the pain and addicted to this man. Go out, get a new hairstyle, put highlights in, get a trim, have a facial, pedicure, make-over, buy some new clothes if you can, book a lunch date with a friend, start flirting with other men, meet people for drinks, go out dancing, laugh, and start living your life again. You cannot live in the past forever. The relationship is over. Happiness is around the corner but you have to make it happen. You have to let him go now.
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reader, Ask me anything  +, writes (27 July 2007):
Oh sweetie!!!I know exactly how you feel cause i want through the exact same thing!However, I have to say you need to just move on. Your toturing yourself by keeping those emails and letters and listening to all those sad songs!Stop doing it to yourself!!!Your so young and you've your whole life ahead of you, dont get so hung up on one guy!!! There is plenty of them out there!You can move on but your not letting yourself.Delete the emails, burn the letters and listen to some crap happy-clappy pop music. Move on and stop wasting your time with a dream.Some things are not ment to be and if he choose drugs over you then he's not the guy you need!
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