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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and ever since we've been together, I seem to have much more sex drive than him and wanting sex more than he does. We have been together on and off and when I've told him how I feel he says the fact that we're not stable is why he isn't always interested or he uses other excuses like there's no time or he doesn't like being asked. Is this normal for a guy? It's leaving me feeling very insecure, undesired and rejected!I love him and know he loves me. I'm positive he's not cheating but I don't know what else to do.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 January 2009):
It's normal for some guys. My ex just didn't want sex unless he was in the specific mood for it and then I couldn't try and look sexy or that would ruin it for him.
He just wasn't a sexual person.
At the time I thought it was me and was incredibly hurt and rejected. But I've since realised it was just the way he was made to be.
If you are not compatible then there is not much hope of improving so you either have to buy a vibrator and enjoy the other stuff, or consider that this relationship is not for you.
Good Luck!! xx
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