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writes:Hi all,Im glad i stumbled across this site. I really need some advice.I've been in a long distance relationship for 5 years now.My BF is wonderful,he treats me like a princess and over the last 5 years his love has grown for me...My feelings for him on the other hand havent...it just seems the longer we are together the more bored im getting of him (we see eachother every few months).I mean how can i be bored of him when we dont see eachother alot?? When he is here..its nice but after a while he begins to irritate me...he doesnt have any bad habits but i just sort of resent him. When he leaves i get sad but after a few hours im just glad to be able to sit and watch tv by myself.He loves txting and emailing me but it just annoys me so much.Sometimes i even switch my fone off or tell him my email went down and could mail him.Then at the end of every email and tx he writes "I Love You" or "I Miss U"-i know its sweet but it just annoys me.I suppose im a selfish person. But i dont want to leave him because i know i'll never find anyone who will love me as much as he does or put up with me and i dont want to be regretting leavng him in the future.Has anyone ever stayed with some one because they knew how much they were loved but didnt really love the person back? Any regrets or was it the best thing for u?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): hmm there is a great phrase - absence makes the heart grow fonder. Although i personally prefer the phrase; absent hearts tend to wander....which applies here?
i was in an LDR for 2 years we saw each other for a total of 2 months if you squashed it together, eventually she DJ'd me - long before the internet was born lol. But just when i was getting read to go there.
So ok how does this relate - well have often thought how did we keep going so long - we were very different, the only thing that kept us going was loyalty \ honesty \ belief. i think. Would we have survived if we were in the same country? i think maybe a week.
Maybe you need to ask the same thing?
Hugs star.x.
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