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writes:Hey, I was wondering if there was a reason why, that as soon as I get the guy who I've been texting everyday, talking to and flirting with to ask me out, I suddenly lose interest in them? This has happened before with my last 3 boyfriends and I'm not sure why, is it just my age perhaps? something i'll grow out of?I'm asking this because it just seems odd to me, there have been guys who I really really like, and they'll text me everyday and talk to me often in school and online, they are on my mind the whole time.. But the last 3 guys I dated I lost interest in as soon as we were going out, I don't have a boyfriend at the moment, but there is a guy who I really like but i'm scared that if I take things any further i just wont like him, and I don't want that to happen because he is a great guy. Am I a bad person for feeling this way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for your answers! I do agree with the first person in saying that i may be quite a flirty person, Thanks again for all your answers, I've realised now that I'm not the only one who feels this way! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011): Well with this guy that you like the only way you'll know is if you go on a date with him and give him a chance.
You could just be picky about who you get close to and thats not a bad thing.
Yes personality is the most important part, but thats followed by chemistry and physical attraction.
Perhaps with the guys you did date there was just no chemistry there, but the day will come when it will be there so don't worry.
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reader, ml.ama  +, writes (11 June 2011):
I think you can only realize whether you have chemistry with someone or not if you meet them personally. Even though you may meet someone nice doesn't mean you'll really like him. We can't fall for everyone (fortunately)!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011): this happens even with adults! sometimes it's just easier to "talk" on a keyboard...a lot of times people paint themselves differently than they actually are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011): I think its most likely to be that you're more of a flirty person than a commited person. It may seem more exciting and fun, where as when your in a relationship with them you dont have to keep flirting anymore because you haven't got to try and win them over. There's no reason to not keep up the flirting etc so maybe you stop when you do go out with them? It could always be the pick of the boys, and the change in them!
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