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writes:Hi, I'm Marco, this is what happened to me. This saturday I found my ex in a bar, I said hi to him and he said hi to me with an attitude, I was with my best friend and my ex hates him, I really don't know why, when we were dancing he was even pushing my friend, the thing is that I still have feelings for him, I was having a great time until he did that to me and I don;t think its fair because some time ago I saw him dancing and kissing another guy which disappointed me and broke my heart even more, we didnt end up our relationship in good terms, but after some time he apologized for what he did and said to me, and we ended up kissing, I don't really know what to think, that night we kissed and talked he seemed very sweet, tender and sincere, I told him he could text me or call me anytime and he never did, so I saw him on saturday and he seemed so mad and annoyed, I really wanted to go to him and try to talk, but the image of him and that other guy came to my mind, so I didnt think it was a good idea, now I'm feeling so bad and sad, cuz I'm still loving him and missing him, I really want to call him or text him, but I don't know what to do anymore, I really need an advice because these feelings are affecting me in every way. I really need help, a good advice please. This is hurting me so bad.Thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you sooo much Mike, I guess I have no choice, but I'm on that stage in which I feel depressed and confused, he's in every single thought of mine :'( and that's really not helping me at all.
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reader, Mikes  +, writes (9 September 2009):
 Sometimes we never stop loving our ex. Theres one ex i think that ive never stoped loving, even though it was 3 years ago and i have a long term boyfreind now!who i love very much.
I think the message im trying to get across is that just because you still love someone doesnt mean that your compatible, or that you will ever get back together. You cant get rid of your feelings, and you shouldnt, they make you who you are, but just try to move on. Im sure there are more guys out there who you can be happy with. Relationships shouldnt be so much effort.
Im really not being harsh but if this guy hasnt txt and is rude to you and kissing other guys then i dont think its gona happen. Just move on from him.
I hope this helps
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