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writes:Hello there one of my really good friends who is in his 20s is getting married in the july after less than a year with his girlfriend.One problem though she is dodgy she is always asking for money and gifts from him even though he is just an ordinary guy who has a normal salary.I have also seen her stealing some money from his wallet. Should I tell my friend what she is really like and ruin his happiness?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): Yes, this is tricky you have to be careful you dont want to lose your mate altogether and if you tell him this, it maybe the case plus if this girl is how she sounds she will twist all you say and he will believe her against you. Keep your distance from her but stay in touch with your mate but dont make what your doing obvious. best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007): Don't tell your friend. If you do he's bound not to believe you and your friendship will fall to pieces. The money and gifts that she wants from him are normal for her to ask for every now and again, after all she is his fiancee. And as for taking money from his wallet he might have allowed her too. Just remember this, if she is dodgy don't tell him for the sake of your friendship just be there if he realises it and his relationship falls apart.
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (9 February 2007):
 Chances are he wont believe you and then things will get pretty crappy between you and him. Times like this, you should just let him find out in his own way. Besides, are you sure she was stealing it? What if he lets her go into his wallet? After all they are getting married. Either way, you had it right. Dont be the one to ruin his happiness
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007): u got to tell him because if you dont and he finds out you know what she is like then he might fall out with you!But if he already knows then its his fault because he should leave her she is a gold digger and nothing else!
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