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writes:There's a boy I really like at my school and before the 6 weeks summer holidays me and him got on really well and I thought we had a chance but we chose to wait until after the holidays to see what could happen. When I went back to school last week I finally plucked up the courage to talk to him and I said that I still liked him and if he didnt feel the same way it was fine and I didnt want that to ruin our friendship, and he responded saying that he felt the same way too but that was it, now I'm confused about what he meant because he didnt say what he felt the same about, this has really bothered me and I want to talk to him again to ask him what he meant but I dont know what to say, what can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, sticky_fun +, writes (7 September 2008):
 hey
im afraid the only thing you can do is actually ask him what he means, and to do that you just need to pluck up the courage again. i dont think you can rely on anyone elses interperetation of this because its very vague and could be interpereted in many different ways.
i suppose you could take his answer to mean exactly what you said, that he likes you too but he doesnt want to ruin the friendship. that is in the case of it not working out of course.
to be honest, i would just ask him about it. relationships need good communication to work well so i would recommend you just come out with it. the worst that can happen is that he says he doesnt want to try it, and thats fine, you still have the friendship and you move on.
good luck!
xxx
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