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writes:recently this year, i did quarrelled with my only friends i had over a many reasons. firstly, last year we were all very close. simply because we are all single and have been going a rough patch in our love life. and this year, all of them got attached including me. i didnt last long as from my previous question i posted. my exboyfriend went to prison for awol. after he was released we got into a huge complicated relationship and things between us were left hanging. all my 4 girlfriends were attached. when i shared to them about my plight, they merely adviced me on stuffs which i know what to do even before asking them for help. ever since we all went separate ways after high school we all changed. maybe due to the new environment faced. i still remembered crying infront of my girlfriend because i was sad about my life. and she simply ignored me. from that point of time, i really felt that the friendship we all had was of no use to continue. ever since they all got attached its more of a couples day out. me, being the only one single, would feel very odd being with them, although they made their boyfriends to be my own good guy friends. but i do still feel odd.and i only feel that they only look for me when they quarrel with their boyfriends or boyfriends is going on a holiday..i seriously miss the good girls outing days we had..what should i do?
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reader, Chippymunk  +, writes (7 September 2008):
 Don't worry, you're not alone. I'm in the same situation, except I've never even had a gf before. All my friends have someone and whenever I go out with them, they'd bring them along so i'd be the only single guy. I do feel akward and maybe even a little embarassed. Before they had gfs we'd go out every week and have tons of fun, but now I hardly talk to them at all. I also feel like they treat me differently just because i'm single. I know one of my friends actually thinks he's better than me because of it. Don't worry, things change. My little brother didn't believe me when I told him that all his friends will leave him after high school, and now he only has 2 friends who still talk to him. Try making new friends wherever you go, It's not going to be easy though, most interactions with people only go up to a friendly-colleague level.
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