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writes:I told my bf I loved him after 1 year. He stood quiet and didn't say anything. I left home and all day he did not call or text me. I called him late to talk and he basically said that he doesn't love me but is only enjoying time with me. He does care for me more than a friend but I guess doesn't love me. As of right now he wants time to think about things. He is a really great guy treats me well hardworking and is a gentleman. I'm really hurt because I do still want to be with him. Idk what to do...I know there isn't anyone else. What does he mean that he us just enjoying his time with me? I told him am I just there for comfort? He said no. .....
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (22 December 2014):
Dear OP,
I suppose he meant what he said.
You need to decide if a friendly relationship without romantic loving feelings is enough for you.
Personally, I wouldn't stay in an arrangement like that. You deserve the real thing. And also, I am not sure if you truly love him either, if it took you such a long time to say so. It sounds like you two lack the enthusiasm of real love.
If he cares about you like a friend, maybe you can continue like friends, but at the same time allow each other to find someone who really loves you.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (22 December 2014):
It means that your relationship probably doesn't have any long term potential. He's living in the moment and happy to be there but not interested in anything more.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (22 December 2014):
You are looking for love from someone who does not love you...how do you explain that to others??
Lets say all men and like oranges, and you want orange juice. You pick up the orange, cut it open, and squeeze. No juice comes out. However, all the other oranges are all around you.
So you just stand there squeezing the orange with no juice, hoping to get some, Hurting you hands (heart), instead of simply getting another orange that has juice?
Interesting.
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