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I regret it but I'm terrified she finds out I cheated... Help!

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Question - (4 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 September 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, *m stuck writes:

umm well it sounds stupid but like im only 15 but like I've been in a relationship with this girl for nearly a year now and we've been through so much and i dont know what i would do if i lost her but i cheated on her the other night at a party, i was drunk but that's not an excuse and a few of my mates they all found out and im just afraid if she finds out somebody help me !!! .. please

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010):

I hate to tell you but you're gonna have to suck it up and be honest with her. If you sit down with her and explain what happened she is going to be upset but not as upset as if she found out from someone else. You're gonna worry and stress yourself out more than you need to. If you can't be honest with her theres no way your relationship is going to work out. Life is hard sometimes and this is one of those times. Just be a man about it. Tell her before she finds out from someone else.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010):

Since a few ppl know now there's a good chance she'll find out. Ppl talk too much, it's hard to keep those things a secret because ppl like to gossip too much. I'd be ready to face the consquences. If you're bold enough it's better ot tell her first, but i'd be ready for her to find out either way. She might forgive you if you mean your apology and learned from it. Might also have to brace yourself for losing her, everyone reacts different. No easy answer. Once you cheat you gotta deal with the consequences. Sorry mate.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010):

oh well... there are consequences to your actions. What are you going to do? What CAN you do... the truth is out there. What you can do is LEARN FROM THIS, and don't do it again. At your age, it's natural to screw up a few relationships, that's how we learn.

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