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writes: I'm so confused! I was hanging out at my friends house, and a bunch of people were there, including my boyfriend at the time and one of my ex-boyfriends. It was really strange to hang out with both of them in the same room, and it made me realize that I A.) still have feelings for my ex and B.) don't like my boyfriend as much as I thought. So I broke up with my boyfriend (we had other issues, it wasn't just because I have feelings for my ex) and now I want to pursue my ex. Problem is we stopped communicating. We were hanging out and flirty earlier last year, but we've lost that. I want to talk to him more, but I don't know what I should do. I don't want to freak him out. But I really want to at least be friends with him! What should I do? We were great together, our families loved when we were dating, and I broke up with him (didn't really have anything to do with him..I was immature at the time.) I regret dumping him, and would do anything for a second chance. He is perfect for me. Any advice?
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reader, Griffo +, writes (2 February 2010):
Your ex is your ex for a reason.
Move on from both of them. However, it sounds a bit shallow hearted to dump your recent now ex bf over this. Sorry, but if you have'nt leaned that one, now you know.
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