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writes:I recently realized I am in love with my wife's best friend. I do not feel any less in love with my wife. I love her with all my heart, but I also love her best frient with all my heart. Luckily her friend lives clear across the country. How do I stop these feelings?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): i know how you feel. I wish there was a im in the same boat as you forums to read. I ended up telling my wifes friend how i felt about her and she said she had no problem with it and said she is happly married and hopefully we could still be friends. I talk to her alittle bit by text messages. she basically told me she likes to talk to me but holds off on answering my messages for days but then when she does it seems like everything is fine. Im really confused. Maybe im fooling myself thinking she is thinking about me too. I dont know but i cant get her outta my mind. I wish i knew what she was really thinking. Anyone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): That would be the #1 betrayal. So don't do it, don't even think about doing it.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 August 2007):
 You can't necessarily "stop" the feelings but you sure as hell can try ignoring them and focusing all your attention on your wonderful wife. Let them stay in the far back of your mind and hopefully they will fade away in time. Don't do anything stupid or you'll regret it big time.
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp  +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Personally I don't think it is love that you're feeling for "both" of them. Love is such a powerful emotion and can only be felt truly for one person. When you love someone your whole world surrounds that one person...not "two people". I think you should forget about this best friend and concentrate on your relationship with your wife. It's not fair to her that you are keeping things like this from her and not letting her know how you feel especially when you say you feel so strongly. I suggest you try and spice up your relationship. Perhaps pretend you've just met and start over.
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