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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ok, I'm not sure how to put this. Im 18 and have a really stable relationship. I love my man to peices and would do anything for him. We always have a laugh and a joke when we are together. I have been with him for 2 years, but was unable to 'discover the bedroom deparment' for a year due to my medical problems, however we are getting things back on track now. Im not complaining about what he does in the bedroom, but i feel as though i am not satisfying him enough. Everytime i ask him, he says it was great and he really enjoyed it. I'm not happy with the way i am in myself and i think this is the reason why i am being paronoid. I'm going on holiday at the end of the month and i really want to sort my paronoia out and give him a holiday to remember. Has anyone got any tips?
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reader, lexilou +, writes (1 July 2008):
Just relax and be yourself. If you are uptight and worrying about your performance in the bedroom then you will appear stressed and uptight. Take on board the fact he says it is great, he probably means it.
If you relax and enjoy the holiday it will be one to remember. Try a little mutual massage to relax you in the bedroom too, and just enjoy what you two have together x
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