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I really want to ring this girl, but for some reason, I keep putting it off... Why?

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Question - (9 April 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 April 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

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I really care for this girl and I haven't seen her in over a month. I really want to ring her but for some annoying reason I can't seem to. I always think to myself that I will ring her and when I do have time to ring her I don't. It's like something is holding me back. Why do I feel like this?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2006):

Just call her. The more time that passes, the more awkward it will be, then you'll just feel it's too late and never get to speak to her. Meanwhile, she'll just think that you aren't interested or have changed your mind about her. Then she'll try to just forget about you and move on. Be the man and call, she'll be happy to hear from you!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2006):

If you like her, which you probably do, you probably feel like she can say something to hurt your feelings, or it's likely that you're afraid of saying the wrong things, or making yourself look 'stupid' or 'lame' one way or another. These things are quite trivial really. Just pick up the damn phone and call her. You want to miss the boat on this one?

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