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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Basically I really want to orgasm while having sex and as funny as it seems I'm finding it hard, I need some tips on how to, because when my boyfriend goes down on me or uses his fingers I do within minutes but never through sex???
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (21 January 2009):
 Nobody should bash another for having five intimate partners in six years, which is really rather tame these days or at any time since World War II. But to the 18-21 anonymous poster, it would seem that you are more fortunate than many about your age if you can orgasm "within minutes" doing anything sexual.
In my opinion, and based on experience, you have a great start. In fact, it may be best to start off each session with fingers and cunnilingus, then follow up with intercourse. The intercourse may result in multiples, and there's nothing wrong with that. Many women have difficulty climaxing with intercourse alone but unfortunately are with men who do nothing more. You will likely do much better with experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): A question to the anonymous agony aunt:-
How can you possibly have 5 "intimate" partners in 6 years??!!
Surely you couldn't be in love with all 5 of them, one after the other? - Were you on the rebound a lot of the time??
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): It took me more than 5 partners and about 6 years before it happened for me. I think there is a difference between wanting it to happen, and it just happening naturally.I think I might have just began to think it wasn't possible without clitoral stimulation, (fingers or tongue) as thats the only way I ever reached orgasm - and I experimented with a vibrator too (both with partners and alone)and never achieved.Then - with my husband (before we married) it happened when I was least expecting it. I was on top - riding. Its a great technique, I get orgasms most times I ride now I know where to position myself (unless he comes first that is! :-)Try this: make sure you are nice and turned on first, some slow foreplay or something. Climb on top, and get him right inside you. Rather than moving up and down so his penis moves in and out, stay basically sat on him with his penis fully inside you, and move yourself gently back and forth, kinda rubbing on him. (tilt slighty forward - i kind of lean totally forward) Keep going slowly and you will DEFINATELY start to feel the good stuff as you start to feel his penis rubbing on our G-spot. I find once I've found that feeling, if I go a bit faster and keep at a steady pace, I have THE BEST orgasm. (He might need to move you hips for you as you start to orgasm as its difficult to keep the rhythm when your in absolute heaven!)This is my favourite position now, and not only does it create a fantastic orgasm, it feels like I'm about to come as soon as I start riding now - now I've had loads of practise.hope this helps! happy climaxing xxx
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